Self Appraisal
One winter morning, a
little boy came across a telephone booth. He found a carton nearby to climb on
so he could reach the phone and make a call. A nearby observer curiously
listened to the boy’s conversation.
The little boy spoke into
the phone, “Madam, I am poor, can you give me the job of cutting in your grass?”
The woman on the other end of the phone line replied, “Sorry, I
already have someone who cuts my lawn.”
The little boy offered to cut her lawn for half the price of
what she is paying now.
The woman replied, “I’m already satisfied with the person who
cuts my lawn. He is doing a good job.”
With perseverance, the little boy said, “Madam, I’ll even sweep
your sidewalk, so you will have the prettiest lawn on the block.”
The woman declined.
When the call was over, the observer walked over to the boy and
said, “Son… I like your attitude and your positive spirit and would like to
offer you a job.”
The boy politely declined.
The man said, “But you were pleading for a job when you were
talking to the lady on the phone.”
The little boy replied, “No Sir, I was just checking my
performance at the job I already have. I am the one who is working for that
lady I was talking to.”
The Moral
This inspiring story encourages seeking feedback to prepare
oneself to work constructively on self-improvement. This feedback
will help you take corrective action before trouble arises.
The Baby Camel and His Mother
Once there was a baby
camel who lived with her mother. She asked her mom one day, “Why do camels have
humps?”
The mother camel smiled
and replied, “As desert animals, we need to store water so we can survive for
long periods of time without drinking.” The baby camel thought for a moment and
then asked, “Okay, why are our legs long and we have large, round, soft feet?”
The mother replied, “Our long legs keep our bodies further away
from the hot ground and our large soft feet prevent us from sinking into the
sand. This way we can move around the desert better than anyone else can!”
The baby camel then asked, “Mom, why do we have long eyelashes?”
The mother camel responded, “Your long thick eyelashes protect
your eyes from the desert sand when it blows in the wind.”
The baby replied, “I see. So the hump is to store water when we
are in the desert, the legs are for walking through the desert and these
eyelashes protect my eyes from the desert.”
The mom agreed.
Confused, the baby camel asked, “If God has given us so many
talents to live in deserts, then why are we in the Zoo?”
This left the mother
speechless.
The Moral
The story of the baby camel teaches the importance of living and
working in an environment where you can best use your natural strengths. Your skills, knowledge, talents, abilities and
experiences are only beneficial if you are in the right place where you can use
them appropriately.
You cannot grow or excel in an environment that limits your
potential. This story can help teach children the importance of finding their strengths and passions and using
them in ways that are beneficial.
A Group of Frogs
A group of frogs was
traveling through a forest looking for a pond. While on their journey, two
frogs fall into a deep hole. As they are trying to escape, the other frogs
gather around and proclaim how impossible it will be to escape.
The two frogs pay no
attention to the other frogs and keep trying to jump out of the hole.
Eventually, one of the frogs gives up, but the other keeps jumping as hard as
it can.
After a big struggle, the frog makes
it out of the hole alive. Surprised, the other frogs asked how it managed to
make it out of the hole even though they were telling him to give up. The frog explained that it is deaf and he had just assumed that
everyone was cheering him on.
The Moral
People’s words can make a big impact on our attitude and
behavior. It is important to ignore naysayers in life and focus on the positive
support you have around you.
The Egg, Potato, and Coffee Bean
One day, a little boy
named James was crying to his father about all of his problems in life. James’s
father patiently listened and then brought over a bowl with a potato, an egg,
and some coffee beans in it.
He asked James to touch
and feel the ingredients in the bowl, and talk about what they felt like. James
described how each ingredient felt.
His father then smiled
and asked James to put them all in different bowls and pour water on them. His
father then let each bowl boil for a few minutes. Once cooled, James’s father
asked him to touch the ingredients once again and feel the egg, potato, and
coffee beans.
James described them differently this time. He said the potato’s
skin was easy to peel, the egg had hardened, and there was a fresh coffee smell
coming from the beans. Listening to James, his father smiled and told him how
the potato, egg, and coffee beans each reacted to an adverse situation
differently.
The potato became soft, the egg turned strong, and the coffee
beans changed their form completely during their time in the boiling water.
The Moral
We will all face adversity and problems in life. What is
important is how we react to those problems and how we let them change us. It
is important to be strong during tough times and to learn to be
resilient in the face of adversity.
A Butterfly’s Struggle
One day, a man sees a butterfly trying to emerge from its
cocoon. As he watches the butterfly struggle to get out, he decides to help the
butterfly by using scissors to cut the cocoon until it’s completely open.
The butterfly is then able to easily escape; however, it came
out with a swollen body and undeveloped wings. The man watched as the butterfly
struggled to fly or even just crawl around.
While he had tried to do a good deed for the butterfly, he
realized he ended up hurting its chances of living a healthy life.
The Moral
Some struggles are important to go through in life because they
shape us into strong people.
Nature designed the butterfly’s body to go through a struggle
before it can fly.
The Value of Money
On the first day of
school, a teacher holds up a $100 bill and asks his class who wants it.
Everyone raised their hand excitedly at the prospect of
receiving the money. The teacher then says, “I will give this money to someone
here, but first, let me do this…”
He takes the bill and crumples it up in his hands, and then
asks, “Who still wants it?”
The students’ hands stay up.
The teacher then drops the bill on the floor, steps on it, and
grinds it into the ground. He picks it back up. “Does anyone want it now?” he
asks again.
The hands stay up.
“Class, It didn’t matter what I did to this $100 bill, you still
wanted it because its value stayed the same. Even with its creases and
dirtiness, it’s still worth $100.”
He continued to explain, “There will be similar times in your life when you’re dropped,
crushed, and worn down. But no matter what happens, you never lose your value.”
The Moral
Life’s hardships are inevitable and we’ll all be put through the
ringer at some point, often through no fault of our own.
Don’t
let these challenges alter your feelings of self-worth. You’ll always have
something unique and special to give and offer the world.
The Two Wolves
An old Indian chief sat down to teach his grandson about life.
“There’s a fight going on inside me,” he tells the boy, “a fight
between two wolves.”
“One wolf is evil. It’s full of spite, hatred, cruelty,
self-pity, and false pride. The other is good. It’s full of unity, love, joy,
harmony, and humility.”
The grandson pondered this for a moment before asking,
“Grandfather, which wolf will win?”
The
old man smiled and replied, “The one you feed.”
The
Moral
Good
and evil exist within each of us. But it is our responsibility to do what we
can to nurture the good. You can always be more positive in life and at
work, which will replace any negativity and make your life more joyful.
Big Dreams
Mary is a shy little
girl who enjoys playing soccer. Her friends and classmates make fun of Mary for
her love of soccer, but she is determined to pursue her passion and become a
successful soccer player.
Every day after school,
Mary finishes her homework and then practices soccer. Her mom supports her
because she understands Mary’s love for the sport.
When Mary tries out for
the soccer team at school, her classmates mock her again. But they are shocked
when Mary performs well and the judges select her to be the captain of the
team.
Mary never heard another negative
comment from a classmate, because her commitment and hard work paid off.
The Moral
Determination,
commitment, strong will, and focus can help you achieve your biggest goals,
even if other people don’t have faith in you. Focus is a very powerful thing to maintain and it
is worth it to try to increase your focus.
Life Is a Race
Once there was a boy who
was a very good runner who lived in a small village. He was very competitive
and winning meant everything to the boy.
One day, that boy
participated in a running competition where the entire village cheered him and
two other little boys throughout the race. The boy took the winning stride and
came in first. The crowd cheered and the little boy felt proud and important.
However, there was one wise man in the crowd who remained calm
and expressed no sentiment.
A second race was called with two new challengers who came
forward to run against the little boy. Sure enough, the little boy finished
first once again.
Again, the crowd was ecstatic, but the wise man remained still
and calm, expressing no sentiment. The little boy was proud of himself again
and pleaded for another race.
Seeing this, the wise old man presented the little boy with two
new challengers–one was a frail, elderly lady, and the other was a blind man.
The little boy was confused. “This isn’t hard!”, he exclaimed.
The old wise man replied, “Then race!”
The boy was the only competitor to finish the race, leaving the
other two challengers standing at the starting line.
The little boy was ecstatic, but to his surprise, no one from
the crowd was cheering this time.
The boy asked, “What happened? Why are they not celebrating my
success?”
The wise old man replied, “Race again!! But this time, you all
must finish together.”
The little boy approached the starting line and stood between
the frail old lady and the blind man. When the race began, he took both the
challengers by the hand and started to walk slowly to the finishing line,
crossing it with the other two competitors.
This time at the end of the race the crowd was delighted and
cheered for the runners. The wise old man smiled, gently nodding his head.
The little boy felt proud but wanted to know why the crowd only
cheered when the team finished the race together. He asked the old man, “Who is
the crowd cheering for? Which one of us three?”
The
wise old man replied softly, “In this race, you have won more than in any race
you have ever run before, as you have won people’s respect. The crowd is not
cheering for one winner. They’re cheering to show you
respect for how you ran.”
The Moral
Is
winning the only measurement of your success? If you always win,
soon people will stop cheering for you.
Looking at your life, you should ask, “Who is running next to me
in this race? If it wasn’t a fair match, did I help others succeed? Did we all
finish together?”
It is not always important if you win; what’s important is how
you run the race.
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